I feel like this is a question often asked among this generation. Well makes an outing a date? Keep in mind the 3 P's. It should be planned, paid for and paired off. Now planned this means that the date or outing should have been well thought out and planned before hand. And this goes for both the boy and girl. Now I personally think that the gentleman should plan the first two or three, after that the girl should take some initiative to get creative. When something is planned, it shows investment and interest. The second in paid for,  this doesn't mean that the boy should be expected to fork out a good amount of cash each date. This means that there was a good amount of thought and time put into the date. Of course, it's okay to spend a little bit of money on the date, but not every date has to be pricey or fancy. BUT keep it original! (: Last there is paired off  let your date know that they're YOUR date. If it's just a large group and there are no specific pairs, it creates an unclear message. Who likes who? Who is on a date with whom? Now group dates are awesome, but make sure that your date knows that your their date or vice versa. So these are the 3 P's for dating. But wait there's more!! There are also 3 P's when it comes to marriage... for the gentleman especially. They are preside, provide and protect. (which is expected for most men in marriage).
Planned-Preside
Paid for-Provide
Paired off- Protect
See any relation? You marry who you date. Your marriage will resemble the dating patterns you had with that person. Food for thought! What're your dates like now? Would you want your marriage to resemble those dates? 
 
Lady Gaga famously sang, 
"There's nothin' wrong with lovin' who you are
She said, 'cause He made you perfect, babe
So hold your head up, girl and you you'll go far
Listen to me when I say

I'm beautiful in my way
'Cause God makes no mistakes
I'm on the right track, baby
I was born this way"


In the Plan of Salvation, one of the core concepts of it is that we have our free agency. That is one of the main reasons why Satan left with 2/3 of God's children. It was because Satan didn't want us to have our free agency. If we were born with same sex tendencies then that would completely take away our free agency. As Lady Gaga says, "He made you perfect, babe...'Cause God makes no mistakes." Heavenly Father and our Savior made us in their image and yes, He did make us perfectly. Would our loving Heavenly Father create us to be born gay? I don't think so. I understand that everyone in their life has their own trials and struggles. BUT we aren't born with those struggles and trials. These rough times come about through life and the decisions that we make and the people we are surrounded by. 
     Twins are made up of the same genetics; they have the same genotype. A study was done and it showed that only 11% of twins were both gay. That means that the other 90% of twins are either both straight or one is gay and one is straight. If being gay was a genetic cause then both twins would HAVE to be straight or gay. But in reality the results are all over the place. I firmly believe that same sex tendencies are created by misunderstandings and social pressures. I think we have to control to influence someone positively. If a young boy is being bullied because of his more feminine characteristics, I would hope and pray that there is someone his age to show him the respect and acceptance he deserves despite his different characteristics. Maybe if people with these "different traits" weren't teased or outcasted by their peers, just maybe they wouldn't have turned to seek comfort in same sex tendencies. Maybe we as a society should become more aware of the control that we have one someone 's life and their decisions. This will ultimately effect the happiness of people all over the world. 
 
Culture- The beliefs, customs, arts, ect., of a particular society, group or time; a particular society that has its own beliefs, ways of life; a way of thinking, behaving or working that exists in a place or organization. 

     This week, in class, we discussed a lot about cultures and their impact on families and society. Our professor posed a difficult question for us to ponder and talk about,  "It has become de rigueur to claim that all cultures and their values are equally valid or valuable. What do you think? Are all cultures equal in terms of being right and wrong, good and bad? Do we have the right to proclaim one set of values to be better than another?" This was a really difficult question for me to answer, but it really got me thinking about how we view culture and whether we validate their traditions, beliefs and customs. Often we just tolerate and get used to other cultures in the United States, but I never really considered the thought that there may be a culture that is in the right and one that is not. I think that every culture has some truths and some great traits, but I think there are some cultures that are more beneficial and make a bigger impact on families and so forth. Every culture runs differently and think different. As a result the way families work in cultures are completely different. People's ways may not necessarily be deemed "wrong or right" but I definitely think that there are some that are more influential and impactful on the family in a positive manner. I grew up in California and I went to a pretty diverse High School. I stumbled upon so many different cultures. I was able to make many observations of my friends, and fellow classmates and their families anI don't want to step on toes. Like all cultures are different, every one's opinions are different. What do you think? Do you think that all cultures are "equal in terms of being right and wrong, good and bad?" Think about it! 
 
Families all over the world are structured completely different. Not one family is the same. Every family is made up of different people and most definitely different personalities. In class this week we talked about family structure theories. This is something that I found really interesting. There were four theories that we specifically went over in class. We had the Systems Theory, Exchange Theory, Symbolic Interaction Theory, and the Conflict Theory. As we went over each of them in class, I realized that my family seemed to relate to each of these theories in some way. However, the one that related to my family the most was the Systems Theory. Basically this theory means that in each family, every individual plays a specific role. As a result, the family as a whole works best when the roles are played properly. I have noticed this a lot in my family. As a teenager in High School, my mother and I used to fight a lot. Yes this is very typical, but I felt like my mom and I used to fight way too much. At least more than I would have liked. I was close minded and so was she. My junior year however, everything changed between us. My mom has always had back troubles. One day she threw out her back so badly that she was bed ridden for about two weeks. At this time I was the one who was home the most. My dad was at work during the day, my oldest brother was serving his mission, my older sister was up at school, and then my little sister was wrapped up in her little 6th grade world. Because of this I was able to serve my mom. I cooked dinner, I kept the house clean, I brought her medicine, icepacks and gave her back massages. As a result we were both humbled and began to remember what a mother/daughter relationship should be like. After this I began to trust her and confide in her like a daughter should with her mother. I loved her unconditionally as a daughter should and vice versa. By letting myself slip back into my role as being a more accepting, forgiving and loyal daughter, my mom also went back to her tender loving, supportive motherly ways. When the family is playing their roles properly, the family will together best. My mom is now my best friend and I'm sad there was a time when I didn't feel that way. But through our differences, I have learned to love her for who she is and she loves me for who I am.