Guys, it's my first official blog! So this week has definitely been a very interesting one. I am really loving this Family Relations class. Aside from the fact that Brother Williams reminds me of Martin Short, which is awesome, he really knows how to get discussions running in class. This past week we talked about the trends that have been seen, like:
Cohabitation (has gone up)
Marriage Age (has gone up)
Living Alone (has gone up)
Premarital Sex (has gone up)
Unwed Mothers (has gone up)
Birth Rates (has done down)
Divorce Rate (has gone up)
From here, we did a class vote. For each trend we voted if we thought it was significant, interesting or incidental (not a big deal). It was really surprising to see what trends my classmates deemed as significant, interesting or incidental. One of the trends that really got to me was the decrease in birth rates. It is odd that cohabitation, living alone, unwed mother and premarital sex have all gone up BUT the birthrate has gone down. I think that most of these trends are all linked together in someway. I met a girl who was convinced that she never wanted to have kids. She was a member of the church and a super sweet, awesome girl; she just never saw herself having children of her own. This friend of mine, who's parents are divorced, has a pretty much nonexistent relationship with her father. Her life she has grown up seeing the effects of divorce take a toll on her own life. As a result, I believe that this has made the idea of having children become very unappealing. Can you blame her? No. She's grown up with pretty much no father, a mother who has remarried several times and has had to take care of her own siblings. What happened to the popular saying we all used to say as kids?
"First comes love, THEN comes marriage, THEN comes a baby in a baby carriage."
Cohabitation (has gone up)
Marriage Age (has gone up)
Living Alone (has gone up)
Premarital Sex (has gone up)
Unwed Mothers (has gone up)
Birth Rates (has done down)
Divorce Rate (has gone up)
From here, we did a class vote. For each trend we voted if we thought it was significant, interesting or incidental (not a big deal). It was really surprising to see what trends my classmates deemed as significant, interesting or incidental. One of the trends that really got to me was the decrease in birth rates. It is odd that cohabitation, living alone, unwed mother and premarital sex have all gone up BUT the birthrate has gone down. I think that most of these trends are all linked together in someway. I met a girl who was convinced that she never wanted to have kids. She was a member of the church and a super sweet, awesome girl; she just never saw herself having children of her own. This friend of mine, who's parents are divorced, has a pretty much nonexistent relationship with her father. Her life she has grown up seeing the effects of divorce take a toll on her own life. As a result, I believe that this has made the idea of having children become very unappealing. Can you blame her? No. She's grown up with pretty much no father, a mother who has remarried several times and has had to take care of her own siblings. What happened to the popular saying we all used to say as kids?
"First comes love, THEN comes marriage, THEN comes a baby in a baby carriage."
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